We encourage our families to involve their children in the process, where it is safe and appropriate to do so.  Children have the right to have their voice heard – we are not asking them to make decisions, but to explain what it is like to be them, and what their hopes and aspirations are for the future of their family.  Hearing how a child feels can often be a turning point for parents.

Our specially trained team members are used to talking with young people, the meetings are friendly and informal, and we often have ideas to help support children through the changes that are happening within their families.

You’ll generally have your first joint mediation appointment with us before we see your children, who typically meet with us twice.  We can show you the things we use in our children appointments, such as the Bear Cards, and we’ll get to know a bit about them through you. Their first appointment might last around an hour, and we’ll follow that up with a Feedback Meeting for you.

The Feedback Meeting is a shorter appointment, and you’ll have time to reflect on what you’ve heard before you return to mediation.  If you’re able to make decisions together in mediation with us, we generally see children for a second appointment, again lasting around an hour, to let them know the outcome and to give them a chance to express how they feel.  Have a look at Chloe’s Story https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHlu0ibSF-g to see how taking part in mediation can help your children.